Victoria Sky Transition Guide

Life is a series of transitions—some anticipated, others unexpected, but all deeply meaningful. In these pivotal moments, whether stepping into a new identity, navigating grief, or preparing for death, there is a tenderness, a weight, and a profound opportunity for presence. I have dedicated my practice to companioning these sacred transitions, ensuring that each shift—be it personal, spiritual, or final—is met with dignity, autonomy, and deep care.

Holding Space for the Unspoken

 Death is often treated as something to fear, something to avoid until the inevitable forces its way into view. Similarly, gender transition, grief, and major life shifts are too often met with silence or discomfort. But I believe that these experiences deserve recognition, ritual, and reflection. They are not simply moments to "get through" — they are thresholds that deserve to be witnessed and held with intention.

Companioning, Not Leading

 In my work, I do not dictate paths or provide prescriptive solutions. I walk alongside those navigating transition, offering presence without agenda. Whether vigil coordinating, guiding grief, or celebrating identity shifts, my approach is one of witnessing, affirming, and creating space for meaning-making — so that every individual moves through transition feeling seen, heard, and empowered.

 Weaving Ritual into Change

 Ritual gives structure to transition. It allows us to mark moments, honor transformation, and create meaning out of uncertainty. Whether crafting an end-of-life legacy, supporting gender-affirming rituals, or guiding alternative spiritual practices, my work ensures that each shift carries depth, personal resonance, and sacred acknowledgment. 

Honoring Autonomy & Sovereignty

The most important aspect of transition work is ensuring each person has agency over their journey. Whether navigating death, identity, or grief, individuals deserve to have their truth upheld. Advocacy, education, and presence ensure that no one is left behind in their transition — whether their voice remains loud or has softened into memory. I believe that every transition — big or small, joyful or challenging — deserves care, conversation, and reverence. My work exists to ensure that no one moves through these thresholds alone.